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What’s good yall?! I have a question, did you know having good friends is good for your health?

Sometimes you meet someone and just automatically know that y’all are going to be friends. Like, y’all just click and vibe so well that y’all end up being so close. Other times, it may come unexpectedly or it takes a little longer to develop that friendship with someone. That’s okay though, because once you find your people, life instantly feels a little more fuller. 

Friends are a valuable part of life. They provide us with companionship, emotional support, and a sense of belonging. We rely on our friends to make us feel loved, accepted and appreciated. By taking the time to nurture and maintain our relationships, we can create a strong network of friends that will last a lifetime. Having a strong network of friends can help us to cope with difficult times and provide us with a sense of purpose.

Friendship love can be just as strong and fulfilling as romantic love. It is a bond between two people that is built on mutual respect, trust, and understanding. It is a connection that lasts through the highs and lows of life, and it allows two people to experience life together. It’s based on shared experiences, shared interests, and common goals. With this type of pact, two people can experience life in its fullest, and make the most of every moment. 

Like any type of relationship, they can be difficult to build and maintain. It takes time and effort to establish trust and develop a bond with someone. We must be open and honest with each other in order to foster a strong relationship. We must also be willing to listen,  be supportive, and be there for each other.

It is important to respect their boundaries and feelings at ALL times. 

It’s one of life’s inevitabilities that as we grow and evolve, our friendships can become strained and eventually drift apart. It can be a difficult process, as it often involves saying goodbye to people who have been important in our lives in the past. When friendships outgrow each other, it can leave us feeling empty and confused. It can happen for a variety of reasons. It could be that our interests or lifestyles have changed, or simply because of the passage of time. Our lives can take us in different directions, leaving us with different priorities and values. It can also be because someone has stepped out of bounds and disrespected the friendship as a whole. 

It’s important to remember that it doesn’t have to be a negative experience. It’s a sign that we are maturing and growing as individuals, and it can open up a world of new possibilities. With a little bit of self-reflection and understanding, we can use outgrowing friendships to become better versions of ourselves and form stronger, more meaningful relationships with the people around us. Instead of seeing it as a loss, we can take it as an opportunity to reflect on our own progress and to build new relationships with people who share the same interests and values.

I am very thankful for the friendships I have and the ones I have had. There have been a few that have ran its course, been a few that I thought were friendships and weren’t, been a few that have opened my eyes. Each person has taught me some kind of lesson. No matter the outcome, I’m thankful. 

I have met people in grade school, extracurricular activities, college, online and at work that I have the pleasure of calling my close friends. These are people I’ve been able to be vulnerable with. Whether they realize it or not, they have helped me through some tough times. It is such a blessing being able to have people to call when I need to vent or need advice. To have people that challenge me and help me see different perspectives. To have people that help me visualize different outcomes and doesn’t fuel the negativity. To have people where there’s no jealously and no competitions, just good vibes, support and love. We love good healthy friendships and I’ll forever be grateful for mine.

Until next time,

Devyy J